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Ok, I thought this was a high school problem not meeting women but it has passed on through college life. I am 21 about to graduate college I have 2 close friends we are all college graduates we have started a successful online business and are all successful investors, own houses, independent, etc... Something unheard of for our age..I would consider myself average to above average looking not be arrogant..But have NEVER had a meaningful relationship with a women..What hell is wrong.. I see white trash douche bags hooking up all the time..I know that is harsh I am really a nice guy but life is starting to suck really bad being alone and cant figure this one out..It doesnt make sence..its really getting depressing..

Curious5244

Hey, you're only 21. And you've been working really hard. Relax, nothing is wrong. Maybe you're trying too hard.

3Nat

Most twenty-one year old girls aren't looking to settle down just yet, so maybe the fact that you do own a house/are so successful is intimidating, or they may look at it as 'boring.' They'll grow up though Where are you looking for women? Check for ladies at grocery stores or something. So many guys go to bars to pick up girls then wonder why they don't get good ones. Oy.Also, don't let it be known that you're actively seeking a girl/are depressed that you're alone...even if you are. That's a red flag for desperate/stay away.

exstence

Go out more often. Meet friends who have friends. Join a social club?

jenn

I am a true believer that whats meant to be will happen. I dated a ridiculous amount of guys, and had really meaningless relationships. And then when i finally stopped looking for a guy a really great one came into my life. You need to be patient and keep looking for that one classy, not douchey girl to be yours. Don't be depressed, you will find someone.

LivingforthelifeIlive

Yeah!! I though i would get over it in high school, and i was looking forward to university,. then nothing.. its so stupid and depressing.. I dont like waiting. :@anyways I hope you find a girl soon ;D

Amy

Check this out, I didn't have any serious relationships until I met the one I married. Good things come to those who wait. Even better things come to those who wait longer! I know it's not really a choice and you can't date just anybody, but it might help if you take a closer look at the people around you, friends of your friends, people you meet at conventions, the coffee shop, when someone catches your eye talk with them and just chit chat then give them your number. Be a little laid back, smile a little more, don't take yourself so seriously cause it'll show on the outside and it'll send out signals that don't attract. Maybe consider dating a girl 1-5 years older than you who's at your same level financially. To answer your question, you're not doing anything wrong! You've been focusing on college and work. But don't go getting a chip on your shoulder just cause you're successful, if you lack personality it really doesn't make up for it. Good luck!